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Cincinnati's Catholic Ministry to Lesbians & Gays
What's Behind the New "Ministry"?
(from the May/June 1999 issue)

With great fanfare the Archdiocese of Cincinnati announced in March that it is launching a new ministry to homosexual Catholics and their families. The "Catholic Ministry with Gays and Lesbians" (CMGL) has been organized under the umbrella of the Archdiocese’s Family Life Office.

The Most Rev. Daniel E. Pilarczyk, Archbishop of Cincinnati, and auxiliary Bishop Carl K. Moeddel, inaugurated this ministry at three prayer services in the 19-county archdiocese during April. According to a press release "the ministry may take various forms, such as prayer groups, days of prayer and reflection, providing resources, etc. It also will work at eliminating bias and discrimination and support inclusion."

The Archdiocese also announced in March that Archbishop Pilarczyk appointed Father Raymond C. Kellerman and Father Michael F. Leshney to provide guidance, leadership and direction for this ministry. Fr. Leshney, director of campus ministries at Moeller High School in Cincinnati, served as chaplain to the Cincinnati chapter of Dignity in the 1980s before the Vatican ordered bishops to withdraw all support from organizations opposing Church teaching on human sexuality.

Dignity is a group of Catholics agitating for changes in the Church’s teaching on homosexual behavior. According to the national organization’s statement of purpose it believes that "gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons can express their sexuality in a manner that is consonant with Christ's teaching. We believe that we can express our sexuality physically, in a unitive manner that is loving, life-giving, and life-affirming." Dignity labors "for the development of sexual theology leading to the reform of [the Church’s] teachings and practices regarding human sexuality."

Fr. Kellerman serves on the Archdiocesan tribunal. Both he and Fr. Leshney were ordained by the late Cardinal Joseph L. Bernardin in 1973.

Courage and the "spiritual crisis"
In a March 26 interview with his diocesan newspaper,
The Catholic Telegraph, Archbishop Pilarczyk explained that he initially considered beginning a local chapter of Courage, a unique ministry designed to help homosexuals lead chaste lives. Fr. John Harvey, an oblate of St. Francis de Sales, is founder and director of the 18-year-old Catholic ministry.

Courage has been largely successful in helping those with homosexual tendencies lead chaste lives and loosing them from their homosexual inclinations. Approved by the Vatican’s Pontifical Council for the Family, Courage has been an object of derision by many homosexual advocacy groups including P-FLAG and Dignity. They mainly object to Fr. Harvey’s faithful adherence to Church teaching on homosexuality—that the inclination is an objective disorder—and the ministry’s emphasis on chastity. Despite opposition from a small but powerful cadre of gay activists in the Church, Fr. Harvey’s Courage ministry is now established in 28 U.S. dioceses.

Fr. Harvey speaks of homosexual inclinations as a spiritual crisis, therefore requiring a spiritual solution. The Courage methodology, therefore, offers a spiritual growth plan designed to lead those who seek help to live lives of "inner chastity": relax, practice an examination of conscience, choose a spiritual guide, meditate on the life of Christ and His teachings, pray, attend Mass and say the rosary, if at all possible, each day. Courage, unlike most other Catholic ministries to "gays" and "lesbians," does not accept mainstream culture’s embrace of homosexuality as a new "gender."

When Archbishop Pilarczyk asked for volunteers to begin Courage locally, Fathers Leshney and Kellerman came forward. Subsequently, a group of parents from Cincinnati’s St. Xavier High School invited Fr. Harvey to town to discuss his ministry. Although nearly 200 people, including 28 priests from three dioceses, attended his lecture, Fathers Leshney and Kellerman were not among them.

When asked by the Telegraph why the archdiocese decided against the idea of a local Courage chapter, Archbishop Pilarczyk explained that Fathers Leshney and Kellerman attended a convention for people in charge of diocesan ministries to gays and lesbians. "These are separate from Courage," the archbishop explained. "On that basis, from what they heard and saw, we decided that we would not go the route of Courage but would start our own on the model of what other dioceses do."

The chosen path
That model is the
National Association of Catholic Diocesan Lesbian and Gay Ministries (NACDLGM), founded in 1994 by Father James Shexnayder from the Diocese of Oakland. Fr. Shexnayder co-owns a home with the former head of San Francisco’s chapter of Dignity. In June, 1994, following the Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/Transgendered Parade in San Francisco, Fr. Shexnayder celebrated a Mass for Catholic participants, most of whom were self-identified members of Dignity. In his homily that day he stated: "We must not let our homophobic society confine our homosexuality to the bedroom… Our homosexuality must burst forth from the bedroom and leaven all society." The Oakland priest currently serves as the executive director of NACDLGM, and Dignity remains very active in the affairs of NACDLGM throughout the country.

To illustrate, Pat McArron, founder of the San Diego chapter of Dignity, writing in their local newsletter Dimensions, had this to say: "Recently I had the opportunity, along with others, to represent Dignity at the [1997] national conference of NACDLGM. As a member of both Dignity and the NACDLGM I observed an emerging relationship between the two groups that is encouraging…

"Whereas Dignity has chosen to be completely honest about its position on human sexuality, the NACDLGM has chosen to be silent. It is a quandary for that organization and one that is fully understandable when seen in the context of the current ‘official’ teachings of the Church. In order for the NACDLGM to be able to function with the official approval and backing of the hierarchy it is necessary for that organization to publicly adhere to the official teaching of the Church. That isn’t a bad thing. Someone said to me at the Long Beach conference at the beginning of September ‘[NACDLGM] would not be here today if it weren’t for Dignity.’ At that conference Dignity was recognized and acknowledged by those in attendance for its pioneering contributions to gay and lesbian Catholic ministry."

NACDLGM is recognized as the official organization which serves as a central clearing house of information for and about the diocesan ministries to gays and lesbians. At least 35 dioceses in the U.S. have such ministries. Although this national organization claims that it does not seek to set ministerial standards or develop national "platforms," the speakers and topics discussed at the annual conferences each year are revealing.

Speakers —mostly Church employees— at last year’s NACDLGM conference in Rochester, New York, betrayed in the most obvious ways their dissent from and distaste for Catholic teaching on sexual morality. They spoke of their efforts to promote homosexuality in parishes, schools, diocesan offices, and in state legislatures. They ridiculed Catholic Church teaching on sexual morality, and boasted how they have achieved power in many important dioceses (such as Los Angeles, St. Paul-Minneapolis, Rochester and Richmond, Va.). They explained their methodologies: how they intimidate and mislead opponents (especially parents of children in Catholic schools), how they recruit fellow homosexual activists for Church positions, and how they incorporate homosexual propaganda in liturgies.

NACDLGM speakers and listeners alike tossed out hundreds of ideas and techniques for promoting homosexuality in Church structures, from how to win approval from reluctant bishops for promoting Always Our Children, to sensitizing parishioners to the "gay ideology" during Sunday homilies, to brainwashing "right-wing fundamentalist" Catholics who believe that homosexual activity is condemned in the Bible.

Some speakers, such as Bill Kummer, an employee of the Archdiocese of St. Paul-Minneapolis, detailed how to homosexualize the Catholic schools, to promote "the kind of climate that can be affirming, inclusive, and so forth regardless of anybody’s sexual orientation or sexual identity."

Kummer explained how he presented his archdiocese with a plan to implement the gay education agenda in the Catholic high schools. His agenda, he said, had three objectives:

1. To "present the accurate and full teaching of the Catholic Church because many people reduce that to three paragraphs in the Catechism and we all know there’s much more than that."

2. To "provide a respectful and faithful position that unites the archdiocese through the archbishop, the Catholic Education and Formation in Ministry office, and community groups," i.e., homosexual activist groups.

3. To develop a "strategy to respond to express needs, i.e., kids presenting themselves [as gay and lesbian]."

Kummer explained that the best way to accomplish these three objectives is through faculty in-service programs designed to sensitize teachers to homosexual issues and then developing and implementing an "inclusive curriculum"—taking "gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered experience and finding ways to write that into the curriculum" in every subject.

It is interesting to note that shortly after the Archdiocese of Cincinnati announced its new ministry to gays and lesbians, Fr. Leshney and Bishop Moeddel led a faculty in-service workshop at Moeller High School. The subject: Always Our Children.

(See sidebar on page 11 for more information on the 1998 NACDLGM presentations).

Not our agenda
The Archbishop of Cincinnati concluded
his interview with The Catholic Telegraph by assuring that his ministry will be faithful to Church teaching, and will not have as a goal "to make homosexual behavior socially acceptable."

"That’s not our agenda," he reiterated. "Our agenda is to offer spiritual assistance and [C]hurch teaching and acceptance to people of homosexual orientation."

In similar terms, Rochester’s Bishop Matthew H. Clark steadfastly maintained in public announcements and private letters that NACDLGM and its speakers at the Rochester convention are all loyal to Church teaching, with an official liason with the National Conference of Catholic Bishops. Faced with the irrefutable evidence that these speakers supported blessing same-sex couples, spousal benefits for homosexual partners, and other aspects of the homosexual agenda, Bishop Clark merely reiterated the same words Archbishop Pilarczyk recently offered: "That’s not our agenda."

The prayer services inaugurating the new Cincinnati ministry reflected little desire or ability to "offer spiritual assistance" to gays and lesbians. Instead, the archbishop gave a bantam interpretation of Church teaching on homosexuality—emphasizing repeatedly that "homosexual orientation is disordered." But, to put his own remark into perspective, he added: "I consider everyone, more or less, disordered because of sin." Which is worse, he asked, a man who engages in same-sex acts or a man who beats his wife?

An interpretation of Church teaching
In his March 26 interview, Archbishop Pilarczyk, president of the NCCB’s Bishops Committee on Doctrine, again touched on the subject of the Church’s teaching on homosexuality. "The Church teaches," he stated, "that just as some people are born with an orientation toward avarice or anger, which is an objective disorder—objectively speaking—so also some persons are born with an orientation to homosexual behavior."

It is important to note, however, that in September of 1997, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (CDF) announced a significant correction in its presentation on homosexuality in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, which changed the wording "homosexual condition" to "homosexual inclination—intrinsically disordered." This change in the translation was intended to close what many considered a huge opening for homosexual activists to distort Church teaching. The phrase "homosexual orientation" was never used in the Catechism.

Another catechism revision eliminated the word "innate" (because of its connotation of "inherent" or "inborn") from the paragraph on homosexuality. As explained by Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger: "One objection was that we made people think homosexual tendency was innate, that it was already present at the moment of birth or conception of the person. Many competent experts said that this has not been proven."

In short, it would seem that no teaching of the Church lends credence to the notion of a "homosexual orientation," as defined by the Archbishop of Cincinnati.

When asked by a self-identified gay man during the Cincinnati inaugural service where he gets his "facts" on homosexuality, the archbishop responded: "I read the daily paper." There must be some source material, he added, to support his information.

Help from P-FLAG
In the same Telegraph interview, Archbishop Pilarczyk also stated that the new Archdiocesan ministry "basically arose out of Auxiliary Bishop Carl K. Moeddel’s workshops on Always Our Children."

Bishop Moeddel held three regional meetings in the archdiocese last Fall with homosexual activists and parents of homosexual children to promote the controversial 1997 document released by the NCCB’s Bishops’ Committee on Marriage and Family. The document, which was characterized by Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz of Lincoln, Nebr. as "founded on bad advice, mistaken theology, erroneous science, and skewed sociology," required numerous changes before meeting with the provisional approval of the Vatican.

During the first meeting, which was held at St. John Neumann Church in Cincinnati, Bishop Moeddel, a member of the conference committee that produced the pastoral letter, said AOC was intended as guidelines for parents and clergy, not as "an endorsement of homosexual lifestyles."

Nevertheless, the bishop shared the podium with a representative of P-FLAG who distributed literature advertising both her organization and Dignity, both of which not only endorse the homosexual lifestyle but affirm it in no uncertain terms.

P-FLAG is the country’s leading organization promoting the acceptance of homosexual culture in schools and in the media. It promotes same-sex marriage as a "basic human right," actively undermines Biblical and religious objections to homosexual activity, promotes "gay pride" and "homosexual lifestyle awareness" at elementary and secondary schools, and organizes youth groups for adolescents to encourage them to "accept" their orientation (see article, p.13).

Parents and others who attended the meeting in November, 1998, were also given a list of therapists "who are gay-friendly/sensitive," including Kevin Prendergast at Catholic Social Services. The list was prepared by Kathy Laufman, a representative of GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network. GLSEN is a national homosexual activist organization devoted to fighting for "sexual orientation rights" in schools.

P-FLAG also maintained a presence at the CMGL inaugural services. In Cincinnati, a P-FLAG promotional brochure was distributed to participants along with an explanatory brochure on the relationships of lesbians and gays to the Church, published by NACDLGM.

The P-FLAG brochure, which provides an introduction to its Cincinnati chapter, featured classic homosexual propaganda. Citing statistics from pedophile sexologist Alfred Kinsey, P-FLAG claims that "10% of the population is homosexual" and "gay people and their families represent over one third of the people in this country." P-FLAG also asserts that "homosexuality is not chosen, like selecting clothes or a line of work… The gay child is most often aware of his/her sexual orientation at a very early age."

P-FLAG’s goal: "We must change attitudes. While society has imbued all of us with misinformed attitudes about homosexuality, we must not allow these distorted attitudes to go unchallenged and continue to interfere with the happiness of parent and child or their relationship to each other."

Transforming attitudes
It appears from all evidence that the Archdiocese of Cincinnati, following the path of so many other American dioceses, is being used as a stooge by homosexual activists agitating for change in both Church teaching and traditional Christian attitudes toward homosexual sex, same-sex marriage and the gay lifestyle.

Remember these buzzwords: non-discrimination, tolerance, inclusion. These euphemisms are the mainstay in the semantics game played by gay activists. Although the explicit goal of the new CMGL ministry, according to Archbishop Pilarczyk and Bishop Moeddel, is to provide "spiritual assistance" to gays and lesbians, there is more than ample evidence to suggest that CMGL efforts will focus more on transforming societal attitudes under the guise of non-discrimination, tolerance, and inclusion.

Judging from recent NACDLGM history, the bishops will be little involved beyond offering their inaugural stamp of approval, which has now been sufficiently well-publicized in Cincinnati’s case. Heretofore the CMGL will be turned over to those who will guide its direction.

As a result of this new ministry can we expect to find more chaste homosexuals seeking God’s will in their lives, keeping close to the sacraments? If NACDLGM is to be used as the model, no. If the ministry intends to continue to align itself with P-FLAG, no. If the archbishop can do no better than to appoint a former Dignity chaplain as the spiritual advisor, no. The fact that the Archdiocese consciously turned from Courage, a Vatican endorsed ministry supportive of Church teaching, to the dissident NACDLGM "model" is a painful reality which bears further scrutiny by the faithful.

In fact, Courage founder Father Harvey, recently published (with the approval of the Vatican), an analysis of the revised Always Our Children. He has this to say of NACDLGM ministries: "The advice to seek help from ‘special diocesan gay and lesbian ministries’ is also cause for concern as our experience has shown that such ‘ministries’ do not provide a program for chaste living. Such programs tend to encourage individuals to define their personhood by their homosexual attractions, labeling themselves according to an objectively disordered inclination."

According to a CMGL promotional brochure, the Archdiocese of Cincinnati’s Family Life Office welcomes suggestions regarding this new ministry. Comments, ideas and suggestions should be directed to: Mrs. Margaret L. Black, Director of Family Life, Archdiocese of Cincinnati, 100 East 8th St., Cincinnati, Ohio 45202. Fax: (513) 421-1582.

—Michael S. Rose

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